FROM BEARS: Actually, I am not referring to food, but to people who grace my life. When I became happier, my unhappy friends left. When I became authentic, my inauthentic companions fled. When I became more loving, those filled with anger didn’t want to be near me anymore. Be the self you want and you make room for others like you to find you. Very cool!
I would think that if you are loving, unhappy people who need love would naturally gravitate to you.